I just read a former high school classmate’s post on Facebook.
Surround yourself with people who make you happy. People who make you laugh, people who help you when you’re in need. People who would never take advantage of you. People who genuinely care. They are the ones worth keeping in your life. Everyone else is just passing through.
This is exactly how I like to keep my friends on my Facebook page. I view my personal Facebook page as place where I can go to when I want to share happiness, need a laugh or read about my friends I genuinely care about. I don’t feel quantity is important, but I know I need quality friends.
I am attempting to keep my life drama free and 100% real. I bring value and loyalty to a friendship and want that in return. With that said; why is it I get grief from people I barely know when I “unfriend” them? Let me demonstrate what I mean by grief.
I “friended” this girl because she was a good friend to another acquaintance of mine. I figured what is the harm. After I accepted her “Friend” request, this chick started friend requesting everyone on my personal Facebook list. This was just a desperate act to me so I “unfriended” her immediately. When I “unfriended” this silly girl (I call the Desperate One) , I received this series of texts starting at 12:29am (Yes AM):
DO: “Just want to let you know that it is beyond me why you have blocked me on Facebook. I have done NOTHING to hurt u”
DO: “I am hurt and have lost respect for you. Take Care.”
DO: [her name]
ME: STOP
DO: “I just talk to [acquaintance] . She doesn’t understand and I don’t! Why can’t contact you? How am I a threat?”
ME: Please STOP contacting me or my child
DO: “And I never contact your child anyhow.”
ME: STOP
DO: “Will do! You burnt your own bridges! Good Bye! Thanks to you being a community advocate only proves to be a popularity contest and joke. Don’t contact me either!”
Needless to say, I will not be contacting her again EVER!
My good friend Ken told me to respond to unwanted text messages with the word “Stop”. I did that, but I guess Desperate One didn’t get the memo! Her response to my “unfriending” on Facebook is not the only one but by far the most bizarre.